Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Drive with Daddy

My Dad and I have started carpooling again to work because it is so far and both of us could save some money on gas.
This morning was really cool.
Usually the rides are quite with some back ground music while the passenger sleeps.
(getting up at 5:30 every morning is very tiring...)
We were doing the usual thing when this came on the radio.
The conversation let to wars and my Dad and Uncle Steve.

My Dad enlisted in the reserves after he got home from his mission because he knew his number would be coming up soon for the draft anyways.
And also he met my Mom after his mission and didn't want to go over to Vietnam. :)
He was only in for a year and trained in Utah. 
He trained at Camp Williams and then University of Utah.
He said that there was a field and U of U where they would train that isn't there now.
He was released due to medical issues and didn't have to go to Vietnam.

My AWESOME Uncle Steve, he was drafted when he was 19 or 20. 
I think he just graduated High School when his number came up.
He was sent over to Vietnam and I bet he has some cool stories.
My Dad said that Steve's first group was killed with only himself and his friend surviving.
The third group was also caught in the line of fire and only three men survived, himself included.
If I understood the story right, Uncle Steve was shot and was sent to Washington DC to heal and never went back to Vietnam.
He has a bunch of medals and one of them is an honor medal. (can't remember the exact name at the time)
To me, my Dad and Uncle Steve are too young to be in any of the wars...
When I think of people being in the war, I think of people like my Grandpa Pingree and Grandpa Hoellein.

My Grandpa Pingree flew flighter planes and was waiting for his mission when the war ended.
So he never saw the "line of fire".
Grandpa Pingree has so many stories though and could literally talk your ear off.

My Grandpa Hoellein passed away when my Dad was young and I have only heard so many stories about him...
Actually, there are only two or three stories that I can remember about him.
My Grandma Hoellein passed away when I was about 10 but I bet if she were still here I would have a ton of stories about him.
My Dad told me this one:

Grandpa Hoellein was the highest ranking, non-commission, that he could be over in Northern Africa during WWII.
(Northern Africa? I know! Cool right?)
He had a driver of a Jeep that had a huge gun on it and was in charge of tanks!
It totally sounded like something from the movies when my Dad was telling me.
Something happened and he ended up dying.
Back then they had a hole in the boat that they put all the dead bodies in to keep them cold and preserve them so they could get the bodies back to the US.

One night, as the guys were making their rounds checking on the dead bodies, my Grandpa moved!!
Crazy right? He was dead...I bet it freaked them out!

He was taken to a hospital that is up north, right as you are going up that hill to go through Logan Canyon.
It's that really cool old building on the north side of the road.
At that time, my Grandma was training to be a nurse at that hospital and that's how they met.
My Grandma would also go with my Dad's Aunt to visit my Grandpa in the hospital.
And the rest is history for them. :)

It was such a fun drive to work and I can't wait until the drive home so I can ask my Dad more questions about my Grandpa being in the war.

The iconic World War II, V-Day Time Square kiss picture was shot in August 1945 by photographer Alfred Eisenstead for the Life Magazine. The nurse (Edith Shain) in the picture unfortunately passed away on June 20, 2010. May all World War II veterans and victims rest in peace. via worldculturepictorial

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Life...

A lot has happened since the last time I blogged.
I have been under limitless amounts of stress and am trying to deal with it.
There have been many tears and hugs throughout this past month.
And yet the hubby and I still seem to find the happiness in all the crap.
How does that work out...?
It still puzzles me but we are taking everything one day at a time and moving forward..hopefully.

My Mom bought me the cutest sign that I think of constantly.
It says,

"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass,
it's about learning to dance in the rain."

It's the first thing I see when I wake up in the morning to remind me to dance.
She also said that while I am sitting at work and don't think I can handle it anymore to stand up and start dancing.
And if anyone asks what I'm doing tell them that I'm dancing in the rain.
Haha!
I love my Mom.
She can't fix my problems but she sure knows how to keep someone smiling at laughing to help ease
the stress.

Many people that we know have told us that "if it should happen to any couple, it should be you two"
"you two are two of the strongest people I know and can make it through this"

Dev asked me yesterday, "Why do people keep telling us this?"
Me: "I guess they can see things that we can't"
and it is true, people on the outside looking in can see things that we can't.
But I definitely don't feel this way.

Through everything that is going on, Dev and I still manage to find our laughs and giggles.
Last night as we were kneeling down to say our prayers,
we got the case of the giggles.
We could not be serious for 5 seconds without giggling.
It feels really good to laugh through everything.

Hubby and I have grown closer together through everything.
And it is amazing!
I love him more now than I have the past 4 years together.
and I know my love for him tomorrow will be more than today.
I'm glad we have stayed strong together through everything and there isn't anyone else that I would go through these trials with.

.. remember this <3